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Friday, January 6, 2012

2 words with a lot of power

Tofer and I argue sometimes...I know, you are all shocked!!  Sometimes there is a very valid reason, but most of the time, I think it is because we both want our own way.  Earlier today, Kristofer wanted his way about something (I'll let you figure it out...he is a man, what do they always want??) and I was not agreeing with his having his way at the moment.  So, some pouting began and I received the cold shoulder.  I went about my business and he went on and he started taking Christmas lights down outside.  We had dinner, cleaned up, and he got ready to go get Ana from a birthday party.  As he was walking out, I told him I did not mean to upset him and that I just needed to take care of other things earlier instead of doing what he wanted to do.  He kind of apologized for pouting and being cold, but it wasn't a heartfelt apology...it was one of those, "I better apologize to Missi or I won't get my way for a while" apology.  He gave me a kiss, left to go get Ana, and I started settling down to write my blog.  (I didn't have anything to blog about until all this happened)  About 5 minutes later, my phone rang and it was Tofer.  He said he was really sorry about earlier and that I deserved a more sincere apology and that he was truly sorry.  Seriously, what he did was not a big deal, he pouted and acted cold, and as far as I was concerned, it was done.  However, he felt I deserved better and he said the 2 words that have a great amount of power...I guess he might get his way after all.  ;)

3 comments:

Edna said...

Nah, your mom's not gonna blush! You are, after all, a married mom!!! Those two little words truly are powerful, but they're so darned hard to say sometimes!

MrsMcComas said...

Gotta love how hard it is for husbands to apologize. When they do it sincerely though, you kind of forget that its an apology and it feels more like a reminder of true love. <3

Nana Gayle said...

This is your mother: tys!!!!!

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